This is my second wedding, his first. My grandmother is no longer with us, but was at my first wedding. She meant the world to me. She actually bought my wedding china, but the ex and I never used it. When we moved, he unpacked it and said Babci (my grandmother) just bought us an early engagement gift. Then I asked him about wearing the same necklace I wore to my first wedding. Everyone has said no way. It was hers, my mother wore it on her wedding day, then Babci gave it to me for my first formal, then officially on my 18th birthday. He said I have to wear it, it will mean she will be with us on our day. This means the world to me that he understands.