So we are looking to have our wedding in oct/nov of 2014. We are still trying to decide on the location of the ceremony but the most difficult part so far is deciding on the reception site. We are on a really tight budget and have around 40 guests. We can't afford to actually have a sit-down style reception nor do I want one. Feeding 40 people can get expensive. So i want to do an in-suite "cocktail hour" with a few platters with some food to munch on. Problem is I am not sure that I can find a hotel that can accommodate that many people. My other option would be to rent a house but that too can be pricey. Any ideas?