Hey everyone! My name is Courtney and I am getting married in August 2014 to my wonderful, amazing fiance Alex. When we first choose our wedding party, we decided that 4 people on each side was a good size. Not too big, not too small. At the time, my fiance really didn't have many guy friends, so we chose one of my guy friends to be part of the wedding party. He is/was a great friend that has done so much for us, including bringing us back to the church where God has really done some amazing things in our life together. Since then, he hasn't been the best of friends, and I actually caught him talking badly about me to another friend of ours. My fiance was so angry when I told him about it. It made me question our friendship, so needless to say we have slightly grown apart in the past few months. My fiance has also become really close to a friend at work that he would prefer to have in the wedding party, as would I. So I am very conflicted on what to do. To make matters worse, this 'friend' of mine is not only my small group leader at church, he is also my supervisor at work. I want to believe that we can keep our friendship seperate from work, but I fear by kicking him out of the wedding party that it will have a negative effect for me at work. HELP!! WHAT DO I DO?!?!