If you have kids, do you care if a wedding you/they were invited to wasn't particularly kid-friendly? We're having a small wedding where most invitees don't have kids. If we put kids on the invitation list, there would be one 2 year old, one 5 year old and one pre-teen, none of them siblings. I have no objection to any of them being there, but I also feel like they'd probably be bored out of their minds since nothing there is going to be kid-friendly or kid-centered. None of them are children that I'm personally close to or who know a lot of the other guests. I feel like if I were a parent, this is something I'd want to either be aware of or just not have the kid invited at all rather than show up and have them be stuck there with a bunch of "boring" childfree adults.