Dance Party!

Blackbird230 · December 2013

@beanbot2002, you are amazing.

beanbot2002 · December 2013

@kait: why, thank you!

suzie211 · December 2013

daveANDkristen said:

suzie211 said:

Ah, give them a week until they want to send her back. They've apparently all interacted with us and we are evil. Little do they know we've just kept some of the crazy from them. They attacked a poster this week for being very similar to fartbubbles. They will do the same to her soon enough.
I think linger is the only one over there who said she interacted with most of the NER regs. Which is probably true considering she was around TK for like 10 years and had many thousands of posts. Anyway I'm sure not all of you are bitches just like not all of the girls who post on the Treehouse are bitches. It's really not a big deal, I'm not sure why anyone cares unless they were personally called out which I don't believe anyone was other than the OP of the thread calling out Bubbles.

Tiger and TwoDimes were called out specifically. The rest of us who commented on Tigers post were called out, just not individually, for commenting and trying "to push her over the edge." I take offense to it. Bubbles relayed her poor me version to the TH. It is far from the truth, and makes her look like she's not the drama instigator and we are. Not true.

Linger made broad based assumptions on the women here as a whole based on her limited past history here and one person's version of a story. I have never interacted with her. I commented in that post, and she said all of us in that post were horrible judges of character. She doesn't know me or the majority of women in that thread. How can she judge? Bubbles brought her drama to the TH and called us out. She's the one that instigated the entire thing. Linger then used it for even more.

What bothers me about this entire thing, is the majority of the TH is using that thread to call us out, continue the drama, and name call. It's being used as entertainment and NEY are the awful ones for calling out Bubbles. However, the TH has done much more calling out on two of its members,and it magically ok for them to do it. Can you say pot meet kettle? We were told to ignore her like you do to all of your trolls. I hardly see how 400 posts and 10+ pages on Monday counts as ignoring your so called trolls.

We stay out of your drama; you stay out of ours. We were brought into the drama and responded out of defense.

minskat30 · December 2013

@Suzie211 - I PM'd her several times and always tried to offer constructive advice and encouragement for her to get help (which she acknowledged she needed). I try to stay out of the drama but it did get too be a bit much...especially the excuses that "weren't excuses". I'm honestly ok with someone making excuses so long as they acknowledge that they are making excuses (hell, I do it with eating/exercise some times...including today). No one is perfect. Just own it.

audrewuh · December 2013

Yea, I'll say that I PM'd with her several times and was unimpressed all times.

The TH was being characteristically TK-board like. We even get that way with posters that come onto "our turf" or whatever. It was just turned on us this time. And I've seen it happen on E with the old, pre-lucy banhammer gate, and CC post lucy, and now it's happening on the TH? And sometimes we play into that atmosphere here on our own NEY board. It happens.

I'm probably not making any sense, but someone will understand what I'm saying. The tables were turned on us just like we've turned the table on lots of people in the past or seen it happen on other boards.

I'm so glad I didn't know about the TH until recently (I took a hiatus when my dad died) and I hope to not have to interact with some of those people again.

suzie211 · December 2013

@minskat30. Exactly. There's a difference in being called out just for fun, and helpful criticism. We tried to help and she didn't want it. I'm 100% ok if she feels welcome somewhere else and no longer posts here, but if you are going to do that actually leave the drama behind and start new.