Do my bosses get an invite?

msmelodypond

I work as a full-time nanny for a wonderful family with three kids. I love the kids very much, and they've become a lot like family to me. However, we are having a tiny wedding, and not even kids in my real family are invited. But should I invite the parents (my bosses)? Obviously because of my job I'm very close to their children, and would include them in my special day if I could, but the parents and I don't have anything beyond a professional relationship, and I don't know if I want them there without the kids (it just seems /weird/ to me). 

Is it traditional to invite your employer? I don't have a conventional job or co-workers so I'm not really sure what to do here. 

WildMagelet

If you were inviting the children then I would invite their parents.  If you aren't inviting their children then I wouldn't because you have nothing but a professional relationship with them.  

KeptInStitches

If you don't have a social relationship, I wouldn't invite them to your wedding.

southernbelle0915

If your reason for inviting them is because you feel close enough to them that you want them there, then invite them. But if your reason for inviting them is because you feel like you should since you nanny for their kids, I would not invite them. 

AddieCake

There would be no need to invite them if you don't consider them friends. 

Jen4948

I would only invite them if you have an actual social relationship with them outside of work.  If you don't, then I wouldn't invite them-not even the children.

melbelleup

If you don't have anything other than a work relationship with them, I wouldn't. I'm not inviting anyone from my work including bosses

WinstonsGirl

You don't have to invite your bosses if you don't want them there.  I didn't invite mine, nor did DH.  That said, if you're wanting their kids involved in your wedding, then I would say you need to invite their parents too.  Since you are a Nanny t other, I assume they're not old enough to come on their own??  At that age, kids need to come with parents, others who will be responsible for them during the ceremony/reception.  So, I say kids = yes, parents = yes.  Kids = no, parents/bosses = no