My FI and I have been engaged for 6 months and it has been awesome. The only problem I have is that some friends (not my close ones) like to comment rather abrasive things after asking me how the engagement has been going. Some of them are married, others divorced, so I understand aspects of their coldness but sometimes it just irritates me. Comments as sublime as "well I hope you realize you have to wake up next to him every day" or as forthright as "divorce costs more than a wedding, you are sure he is the right one for you?" or "believe me, marriage sucks" or as simply rude as "it won't last". I empathize that some of them have had bad experiences but I don't think that it's entirely fair to make assumptions about another couples relationship. So how do you say "Yes I get that forever means forever otherwise I would not have said yes and thank you I am very happy, he is my best friend, and we want to be married and plan on having a great marriage flaws and all - sorry yours did not work out but don't snub mine"...but with more taste....