So here is my dilemma, I have a lot of very close girlfriends and family. In most circumstances, this is a blessing, so please don't think I'm being a brat. This circumstance is proving problematic for my wedding however.
So I have my BFF (will be MOH), my 2 oldest friends from childhood, my 4 college girls (who I talk with everyday and was in all of their weddings), my FI's sister, my 2 really good friends from after college, and my 3 cousins (who are like sisters to me).
I have tried configuring and cutting every which way, but nothing feels right! These girls are all very important people in my life and I want them all there, but I know how ridiculous 13 people. My fiancé hates the idea of having a massive amount of attendants, which I totally get, but I can't seem to come up with a better solution. I saw something a while back about having a "bridal brigade" which includes people who aren't actual maids, but how can that be really special? Any ideas? I feel totally stumped.