Well, there's a couple things that have happened in the space of one month.
He gave me the prenup. It basically said everything goes to him (he makes way more $ than I do), which he has purchased during the marriage (no community property, in otherwords) It states also, if he dies everything will go to his estate.
I didn't understand parts b/c of the legal wording, and asked him if he would pay my atty. so I could have it expained to me, and not feel so confused about it all.
He refused. Well, that fight ended with him hiding the prenup from me after I glanced at it once.
Yesterday, he went out and bought a second car. Ok, no problem with that right? wrong! He picks me up from work, I asked if he was trading his car in or something, and he said, well we need a second car (the transmission went out on mine), He asked me if I liked it I said "it's ok", meaning it's not one that I would pick out, and if it was, it was the wrong color), I asked if it came in any other colors, he said behind us in the lot there was a navy blue one a white one and another gray one like he was driving. I said I like the white one. He said he has a black car and it's a pain to keep it clean, he doesnt want a white on. It is pretty much the same deal as theyre all 2013's w/low miles, etc. He said well, I'm gonna need some money from you for the payments on it. Wait a minute, he makes a major decision without me, doesn't consider my opinion, and now he wants me to make payments oh, and it's in his name! Which he said we can switch it over later..... I was livid. I think he was thinking this was to be my Christmas present. That I have to pay for. I asked him if he would pay for a car I picked out and he said no, he still didn't get the metaphor. So, anyway he got all mad because I was upset (with good reason) and said well, he's just gonna give it to his son who can make the payments and I can just go get a junker car on my income, and I can walk to the car on my way to work because he parks his truck about 1 mile from here. We have snow up here, so it's a kinda big deal.
I don't get it....Is he just being "guy stupid" or does he seriously think that I should be appreciative of this something I never got a choice on, which I (he says) I have to help him pay for. Back to the dealership; he said I could take the other car home and he would finish the paperwork. Well, I texted him when I got home, and asked him if the white one had more miles on it, he replied yes, then I asked if the white one had a sunroof, he said yes. Well even after those hints ( would have been kinda ok with it if he would have switched it to the white one I liked) he pulls into the drive in the gray one.
I don't know what to say to him, I am still mad. And, if this ends up to be my Christmas present, I think I'm just gonna spend the whole day in tears.