I'm getting married in October in Rhinecliff, NY and am searching for a DJ. I currently live in DC so I'm planning this wedding long distance and am having trouble figuring out how to find a great DJ. They have such an influence on the overall outcome of the day, I really want a good DJ who can read the room, adjust his music choice as we go, and will listen to our play/ do not play list. I have had several friends be upset on their wedding day because they DJ was playing songs they had specifically asked him not to. Anyone have recommendations??