Yall Jinxed me... MOH VENT!!!!

thedivav

I swear... things were going along FINE

and over the past 2 months my MOH has lost her ever loving mind...

i am ready to give her the boot out the wedding.... 

Her Line sister *she is an aka* passed from cancer so i have given her space

but between her LS passing, her hating her job, and other life issues... 

i guess my wedding gets to be the transfer of her negative energy...

yeah ia int the one 

I found my dress... the rest of my BM's were excited and happy

her nothing 

she finally communicates with me right after NYE

and starts with the why you lying on fb.... why you say your fiance is not with you...

because he is not honey boo boo.... he had to go on a mission for work.... 

then its how is work... humm been unemployed for 2 months...

Then i tell her again i found a dress

WHAT?! YOUR STILL HAVING A WEDDING??!!! YOU DONT HAVE A JOB

wow really?! *sigh* 

why you in my pocket... unemployment does not stop my life 

life does go on... the death of my father did not stop my wedding ssssooo why would a job loss stop it.... 

OMG she is working my last nerve... i should tell her that her MOH dress will be pink...

*she hates pink btw**did i mention she is an aka?* lol 

sorry i needed to vent... thanks for listening...

on the flip side my bff from college is stepping up and she aint got no job either lol 

any who

MERRY NEW YEAR!!! i hope you ladies had a great holiday

tirathemrs

Ok first of all what is her problem???? And secondly ain't nobody got time for Debby Downer and her problems especially when she is acting all unconcerned about you and yours... Then who told her that she has the right to tell you that you shouldn't be having a wedding just because you are unemployed...this is your life not hers... Miss me with the bs... She would have to go IMO lol... Sorry you are going through this honey... I pray it gets better for you

thedivav

Thanks I am waiting to calm down to talk to her but she is on thin ice I was out done I had to call my best friend from college to talk me off the ledge she is. My voice of reason lol

LeciaB

well im not going to be the voice of reason..lol Kick her out... I can say that now after I kicked my MOH out and the brought her back again..lol

But thats right girlfriend keep on planning.. let miss im a K but I hate pink (INSERT SIDE EYE) THAT she can kindly get out of your pockets and you FB Status.  Love for the ladies that step up when they really dont have too

Im sorry that she is being so difficult try calming down and see if you feel any different..

thedivav

Lol thanks Pink is one of my favorite colors so of course it will be in the wedding she tried to change my colors too lol Yeah I am annoyed still lol

marsm4

Oh boy... Seems like there's alway ONE... suck that it's your MOH.  She's sound Tre Jealousay to me....

LouisianaLove33

wow I am sorry that you are going through all this with her. To be honest just because we are AKA'S (I HATE BEING CALLED A "K" CHAPS MY HIDE) doesn't mean that we have to like Pink and Green. Its more to us than that. But as your friend she should be more supportive and instead of worrying about why you are getting married she can help you figure out ways to cut costs and keep costs down. She is not seeing that she is being a difficult azz person to have as a part of your wedding! Why doesn't she realize that she it is an honor to be in your wedding and she should go with what the BRIDE wants! Hope it gets better some way and SOON!

thedivav

marsm4 said:

Oh boy... Seems like there's alway ONE... suck that it's your MOH.  She's sound Tre Jealousay to me....

she is Jealous 

i know she is but suck it up hunny.... not my fault that your older than me and not married.... hell took me long enough to find the right one... i just ask you be happy for me... 

LouisianaLove33 oh i know... i had a good OES sister who was an AKA who loved red.... i miss  her so much *sniffs* 

i just find it highly ironic her hate of pink lol.... 

thanks yall i hope it gets better.... i might be in here saying how i have 5 BM and a MOH lol 

Senecaf

I couldn't deal with her disrespectful rudeness. Girl bye. She wouldn't hear nothing else bout the wedding till she got an invite in the mail.

Bless your patience honey. I don't have it.