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June 2014 Weddings

Wait... Don't leave!

So we are getting married June 28, 2014 and will have been engaged for just over 2 years so we have been to a few weddings since having been engaged and picked up on a few things.  

I have noticed everything runs super late.  We waited at one for 2 hours before anyone made it from the ceremony to the reception.  May have been due in part to the 3 hour gap between the two.  But, once the start time passed it was another 2 hours until food was served.  We will hopefully avoid these things by having both in the same venue.

Another had no direction at all.  We had no idea what was going on and where we should be.  We were standing outside for 10-15 minutes when we realized everyone had moved to another room for dinner.

The last thing that actually is one of my concerns is that people are leaving at 9 o'clock or just after dinner is done.  We want to do our big exit and don't want to only have 6 people wishing us off.  I have seen the place empty out by 10:00pm when the reception goes until 1AM.  I have left weddings because the dance floor was hot and sweaty and the remaining area had no seating and was way too packed with people to breathe.

So, I guess my questions is how do you guys plan to keep your guests from jetting off too early?
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Re: Wait... Don't leave!

  • Oh wow! I get why everyone left.  We are doing a 7:30pm ceremony with cocktail hour to follow with signature drinks and passed hors d'oeuvres, then dinner with an open bar, dancing until 12am.  

    I can see why you would want your guests gone early, though.  I wouldn't want to make that drive late! A lunch reception is a cool idea. I like it!
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  • Oh gaps! Theyre the reason I leave early. That and poorly hosted. My friends wedding had an hour cocktails with no seating... then they shut down the bar for dinner and dinner didn't even come out til another hour. I was hoping to be able to dance with my FI at least once before we left to go home.. dinner wasn't done til 6 30. 7 30 they were doing dancing.. first dance, father daughter, bridal party, mother son.... needless to say we left. The wedding started at 3:30.. it was over at 4... dinner wasn't til 5 30. ughhhh it was just too much down time


    My wedding starts at 1:30, reception at 3:30, over at 8:30. Honestly, people can leave earlier and I'll be happy.
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  • Melbelleup what day are you getting married on?
  • our cocktail hour begins at 6 and the whole reception is done by 11.  We have no big exit planned, so when people leave they will leave.  Hopefully an open bar and a good Dj will make them want to stay! 

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  • In addition to properly hosting our guests, we are also doing a late night poutine station where people get to make their own poutine. I completely understand that some of the grandparents will probably not want to stay until 1:00 am, but I think ensuring people have a place a to sit, things to eat and drink, and good music is important to people staying around.
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    Melbelleup what day are you getting married on?
    June 28th (a Saturday) All of my FI's guests are OOT by at least 2 1/2 hrs. This way they don't have to get a hotel.
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