Stuck between a rock and a hard place :(

CLI242009

HisGirlFriday13 said:

I didn't read all of this, but did anyone else suggest not inviting the friend/husband at all?

Actions have consequences. If your husband is a douchecanoe and makes passes at your friends and creeps them out, the consequences is that he (and by extension you) don't get invited to events in civilised society.

Yeah some of us did also saying that this might end the friendship.

I also agree with everything you said

HeatherRene83

Yeah , maybe I do need to take a better look at how important this friendship is. It's sad to say but I'm not gonna put myself in a bad situation or make my fiance uncomfortable. Another thing is her and my best friend have recently gotten close and my best friend pretty much just told me I had to deal with it. Since they're close now I'm scared to loose both friendships. And the creeps wife has been acting weird .Another thing us we rotate visiting houses and since I'm uncomfortable I don't know how to tell her I don't wanna go over there without sounding offensive. I've been so stressed about this I've been feeling sick. Thank you again for the replies as they are greatly appreciated

doeydo

NOLABridesmaid said:

Hold up.

Your FI knows that this dude keeps hitting on you and HE hasn't said anything to him either?

This.  If I was in your situation, my FI would make sure this guy didn't bother me anymore. 

NYCMercedes

HeatherRene83 said:

Yeah , maybe I do need to take a better look at how important this friendship is. It's sad to say but I'm not gonna put myself in a bad situation or make my fiance uncomfortable. Another thing is her and my best friend have recently gotten close and my best friend pretty much just told me I had to deal with it. Since they're close now I'm scared to loose both friendships. And the creeps wife has been acting weird .Another thing us we rotate visiting houses and since I'm uncomfortable I don't know how to tell her I don't wanna go over there without sounding offensive. I've been so stressed about this I've been feeling sick. Thank you again for the replies as they are greatly appreciated

There is still no good reason for you to remain friends with her.

Senecaf

doeydo said:

NOLABridesmaid said:

Hold up.

Your FI knows that this dude keeps hitting on you and HE hasn't said anything to him either?

This.  If I was in your situation, my FI would make sure this guy didn't bother me anymore. 


I'm in this boat. I'm actually not sure why any of you are still friends at this point.

Not that I condone hiding behind a computer but, since the husband emails you respond to his next email and shut him all the way down. Call your friend. If she refuses to talk about it forward her the emails and let it go.