Ok I need some advice. My parents split up when I was very young, like 10 months old. My mom and stepfather got married when I was 2. Although my real dad is still a dad to me, he is closer to my two older siblings.My step dad was more of the father figure in my life. He does not have any children of his own and he truly treats me as if I am his daughter. I really want my step dad to give me away to my husband at our wedding. I DO NOT want to upset my real dad what so ever. He is helping pay for the wedding too, and has always been willing to do whatever for me. My real dad gave away both of my older sisters. I just think my step dad should get to have his time as well. Any advice on how to tell my real dad without hurting feelings? Has anyone else gone through this?