At a loss

NeverTooManyShoes

OP, I really hope this doesn't come across as snarky, because that is not my intention at all. But, if I am correct, you have posted several threads of late about many different, significant wedding dramas/issues. From MOH to your father to your FI's cousin trying to assault you to this thread. Many red flags, IMHO. I am genuinely concerned that this wedding is having a serious impact on your well being!

themuffinman16

My MOH is not causing any drama at all.  I was having drama from my bridesmaid, but that was self-inflicted, from stress. I have come to realize her being there is far more important than a baby at my wedding.  I did not want a big wedding, because I have so much family issues with every other aspect. But the FI wants it. I still have an awesome MOH, and a grandfather who loves me to pieces.  Yes, it is extremely stressful.  I do have some bad seeds in my family, but God made up for that by giving me truly genuine people in my life. His cousin will not be a problem, he is saying something to her, this evening.  She will either blow up, and not be invited, or she will realize that I have never forgotten about her terrible behavior, and be respectful on our wedding day. I have talked things over with FI, and he know that wedding planning can be very stressful, with certain family dynamics. He understands why I have been so stressed, most of it because of his cousin and my father. And while there is nothing I can do to change either people, if they don't shape up, they will not be in attendance to the wedding.