Ok ladies I need some help. I live in a different state than all my friends and family (and fiancé’s family). My family was talking to me about having a wedding shower, but I live on the east coast and they are all in the Midwest… usually wedding gifts are quite large so its not feasible for me to fly back with the gifts. I do not want to be rude but I am not sure about the logistics of transporting gifts across the country… driving there is not feasible because it is about a 3 day trip and I would only be able to take a long weekend to go home. Also, should I even register for gifts at all?