My fiancé and I have been living together and will continue to live in the same home after getting married so we really don't need housewares. Its going to be a pretty small wedding (max 80 people) most of whom are close family and friends. Realistically, we don't want their money either. Would it be considered "tacky" if I included a notecard in the invitation with something like "Your presence is the greatest present" in lieu of a registry note?