I have two wedding bands (one to go on either side of the engagement ring ) I'm wondering what the etiquette is on that. Would it be better to have all three soldered together so that my fiancé only puts on ring on the wedding day. ..or would it be better to wait until after the wedding to have them soldered and do the traditional engagement ring on the right hand on the wedding day so that my left hand is free for the band ( s) ?