My daughter's now husband is from India. He was able to come to the US on a finace visa. This type of visa is a "sit and wait" procedure until the government decides to approve it. They waited 12 months and honestly werent sure if it would ever come through. When the visa is approved the couple have only 3 months to become legally wed or the finace is deported.
They would now like to have a wedding and reception to celebrate their union which was 4 years in the making. Reading on here I understand this may appear "tacky". Would her circumstances change this, allowing for her to have her wedding day. It makes me sad that guests could see this as wrong. If we were to have a cermony and wedding could I put a disclaimer on the invite "don't come if you object". The ceremony is important, we are joining two cultures and two diverese religions, I want people to see how beatifully my children are doing this.