And then found the price. It's an older Vera gown, Georgina, but it has everything I like. Strapless, no sweetheart, not blingy or super lacy but not too plain. It has the right amount of flare, I'm not sure what you call it. Trumpet maybe? It is gradual and I love the horsehair.
Anyway even preowned its like $3000. Darnit! I want to spend a lot less. I wonder if I could try to replicate it. I didn't think I wanted to spend the money in having a dress made but this one is making me question that. The more practical side of me noticed a dress I liked alright is on sale at DB for $300 and is strongly considering that option.