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so....Tie-dye

So my FI has a pretty hippie past, but he definitely does not come across like that anymore as he now has an oilfield job, wears hard hats and steel-toed boots, and drives a truck, instead of bandanas, flip-flops and riding his bike everywhere. It's been quite a whirlwind change for both of us from college life to working life, but we're transitioning together! In planning our wedding I originally wanted a Mediterranean theme, not because I wanted to be trendy but because I am Mediterranean, half-Greek on my Dad's side. So I was looking at blue as a main color, with like a light sea green, and maybe a light purple or peach as a third accent color.
 Anyway, my FI's best woman was talking to me about colors just today, she's a good friend of his from when we were going to college, before he started this oil job change of life thing, and she said "I assume the colors are rasta and he'll be wearing a tie-dye tux!" and I about died in mortification. Tie-dye is awesome, I love it, it's a special part of my FI and also our first couple years dating as a couple as we both share a passion for it, but a tie-dye tuxedo? I couldn't quite swallow that one. That is besides the point because we already decided he was wearing his dress blues for the ceremony and not doing the tuxedo route. But as for the colors, I was thinking what she said and I would like to incorporate the color into the ceremony somehow as it's a big part of our past. I just picture rasta colors (Red, yellow and green) and they're so loud and bright, I can't seem to picture how it would work without making the wedding seem like a circus of sorts. We already decided we would make the inside of our cake tie-dye, but does anyone else have any other ideas on how to incorporate a loud color scheme like tie-dye or rasta colors into the wedding without necessarily having the BM's all wearing tie-dye or bright red/green/yellow dresses. Maybe if they wore a soft blue and then I could work with the flowers or shoes for the extra color? Any pictures are appreciated also :-)

Re: so....Tie-dye

  • MobKazMobKaz member
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    edited January 2014
    Are you still considering the blue, light green and purple colors as well?  Then you want the BM's to potentially wear a soft blue dress, and incorporate the red, yellow and green colors into that?

    It sounds like you need to make some decisions.  I would pick one color scheme and stick with it.  You are already paying homage to the tie-dye days via the cake.  I would keep any other ideas subtle as well.  You could add a tie-dye clip to the top of your wedding shoes.  You could sport a tie-dye garter. You could create a signature drink in the three rasta colors for the reception.  

    You could use your blue/light green/purple colors and fashion your table numbers into some tie-dye-ish print.
  • effiek91effiek91 member
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    edited January 2014
    Yes I really would like to keep the blue/green/purple color scheme. I'm not a very "loud" person, I'm much more comfortable with subtle touches, such as the hidden tie-dye cake idea, rather than the all out bright dresses etc. My FI has already given me free reign on deciding the colors, but I figured if I could come up with a bunch of small ideas to represent more of his taste it would be nice.
    And those are some great ideas also, thank you!
  • edited January 2014
    It's not really tie dye, but what about rainbow colored roses or flowers. Even if just for bouquet & boutineire. The rainbow roses are very close to looking tie dyed. And it could still go with your other color scheme. I know FTD does various colors of roses (they even have them in college colors), so you may be able to get them in tie dyed Rasta colors you want. Or even a tie dye mix of blue/green/purple to match your main colors. Or you can find instructions online on how to dye them yourself (it's actually fairly simple). Or even just a bouquet with a mix of flowers in your wanted colors. 

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  • Agree with mobkaz.  I'm not sure you would do both color schemes together. 

    If you want to do something a little bolder, maybe a tie dye/rasta groom's cake?  It would be a place where going off-color/off-theme would be appropriate and it would be okay for it not to fit with the rest of your decor.

    If you are doing an edible favor, you might be able to incorporate tie dye there too.
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  • Perhaps you could do a tye-dye bouquet and then just have everybody else stick to the colors -
    tye-dye roses:
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    It'll be hard to stick to your color pallet.  I do like the idea of the grooms cake done in the hippie-style.


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  • How about incorporating tie-dye with pocket squares for GM and groom and a pair of tie-dye socks for your groom?  You could also buy rasta colored cufflinks for your groom as a wedding gift.

    I would stick with your original color scheme but there is nothing that states that you can't have tiny touches like the one's I listed above in there as well to pull in some of what your FI likes.  It doesn't have to be all out.

  • We are having tie-dyed napkins, though I know that wouldn't work for everyone! I like the ideas of the cake, socks, pocket squares, and/or garters. Or what about ties, sashes, or a tablecloth for one table? Blue, green, and purple would look lovely as a tie-dye...
  • Hello. I'm not sure if your wedding has passed already or not but I just came across your post. I would suggest possibly having a large tie-dye sheet hung as photo backdrop for you and your guests to take pictures in front of. You could put it anywhere you wanted, really. It would be a fun place to take pics and it would add a little flair without being "too much".

    Also, I had an idea about an engagement party recently (which is actually how I found your post because I googled "tie dye the knot party" to see if anyone has done one before and your post was in the search results).
    Anyway, I want to have an engagement party and call it "Tie-Dye The Knot Party".
    This would be a perfect way to incorporate tie-dye into your pre-wedding events without having something you aren't sure you want in your actual wedding.
    I hope you have figured out a solution since your original post! I would love to hear what you decided on if you have and have the time to reply :)
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