So here's the drama so far.... My dad and my stepdad do not get along at all. My stepdad has threatened my father and his wife numerous times. My mom really wants my stepdad to be there, but on the same hand, my father also doesn't like my mom's parents and is hesitant to go to my reception for that as well. He says it will be "really awkward". He wants to walk me down the aisle, but my maternal grandfather pratically raised me, and I would feel bad if my dad walked me down the aisle but didn't attend my reception. I want to confront him about the issue that for me it's all or nothing if he wants to come to the wedding, but I don't want to stir up anything as well. I'm going to have to talk about it at some point, I just don't know how or when. He kind of gets offended quickly, so I don't know how to tip toe my way around this subject. And to top that off, he's religious. So it doesn't help either if I told him not to walk me down the aisle. Also, as a side note, I barely see my dad's side even once a year.
I'm probably in the wrong section for this question but I didn't know where to put it.
Thanks if you had the patience to read this so far! :P