So one of my bridesmaids had to drop out of my wedding because of health issues. The wedding is still 5 months away and she may be feeling better by then. As things stand now, she is not planning on attending the wedding
either (but that can be finally decided by RSVP time, so I'm not too
worried about that.) If she is, I know she would like to be in the wedding. I would very much like her to be in it as well, if she is feeling up to it. She hadn't purchased her dress yet. If she is able to do so, how late is too late for her to decide to be in the wedding? Just enough time for the dress to be purchased?
As an aside, do I still include her on the list of people to be invited to the bachelorette party? (I plan to send her an invitation to the wedding, even if she can't be in it, unless she explicitly tells me not to - which is a possibility.) She had originally been planning it, but that has been passed off to another bridesmaid.