For my wedding, my niece will be a brand new 2 year old. She is advanced and very smart for her age. Has anyone else had a young flower girl? What was your experience with it? If she doesn't make it down the aisle it isn't a big deal to me. Also, what alternate things besides flower petals can she toss? my colors are purple, grey and yellow. It is an inside wedding in a classy barn and my wedding isn't very rustic. The ceremony and reception space are the same so it can't be anything too messy.