We haven't picked our venue yet, or my dress, or anything else... we are planning based on our budget. My parents haven't mentioned anything about money yet if they intend to contribute.
But my mother gave me her guest list ....... now? It includes her hairdresser, whom she's been seeing for 30 years and is a family friend, she says.
Her list includes none of my father's side (they're divorced, but sometimes they see each other) and is about 70 people. We were hoping for a 60 count total wedding.
Do I bother to talk to her about this now? Or do I just wait until we are ready to make up our guest list? I'm afraid she's going to start telling people they are invited.
Also, if we plan the wedding we can afford and want..... and they offer us money later, does that mean she gets to invite all these people?