I've seen a couple of instances of ladies asking for "helpful answers only" and I'd like to make this statement:
By telling you what exactly went wrong, we are being helpful.
By saying "do this, not that", we are being helpful.
By giving you any advice at all, we are being helpful.
Just because you disagree with what we're saying or don't want to hear criticism, that does not mean that we aren't helping. Take what internet strangers say with a heaping spoonful of sugar, because we're offering good medicine.