I've seen a couple of instances of ladies asking for "helpful answers only" and I'd like to make this statement:
By telling you what exactly went wrong, we are being helpful.
By saying "do this, not that", we are being helpful.
By giving you any advice at all, we are being helpful.
Just because you disagree with what we're saying or don't want to hear criticism, that does not mean that we aren't helping. Take what internet strangers say with a heaping spoonful of sugar, because we're offering good medicine.
Re: "helpful" answers only rant
Seriously though I am over the blasting insulting threads people are putting up because they are not receiving the answers or 'helpful' advice they wanted to tell them their etiquette-less idea is genius.
So if you ladies want to spray your face with glitter, make your 'bride-slaves' plan your event, have your cash bar, PPD, not feed your guests, not have appropriate seating and demand gifts then enjoy your friendless rude lives and carry on.
Henceforth, I am going to consider myself Queen of The Knot, and I only deem answers with puppy pictures as helpful!
I just want to give them all awards