So I am not sure that this is the correct forum, but i'll see what you ladies come up with.
So I am having a retro disney themed wedding, I really wanted to find an older theater or something like that for my venue.
I found a place, that is pretty and just a banquet hall, but has beautiful rustic decor. It is well within our budget, which is great because budget is really tight. I kept looking because, well why not? I ended up finding a beautiful Opera House, that they allow to rent out for weddings and ceremonies. I mean, it is absolutely PERFECT! I got info from them, it isn't as affordable as the first place, but still affordable. So I got super excited and got home and started describing the place to my FI, and...he informs me that his ex-girlfriend's grandmother owns the place, and his ex-girlfriend runs the weddings. My FI says he is okay with it, but doesn't want me to be uncomfortable.
This day is about us, so part of me feels like it shouldn't matter, and it would be perfect, but a bigger part of me feels like...it's my day, and I don't want to feel uncomfortable. The first place is still really beautiful, it's just the opera house would be amazing and what I have always dreamed of. I am very torn, and I really hope you ladies could help me out.