So my mom is being contradictory (in a good way I suppose).
She is / is going to be helping my aunts plan my bridal shower since it will take place at her house. Her house is in the middle of everyone so that way no one is driving much more than anyone else (minus my mother who doesn't have to drive anywhere lol).
She always says not to worry about the shower because we all have plenty of time to plan it and don't have to start for a while since it won't be until the month of my wedding or the last week of the month before it. Then she turns around and starts asking me questions about it such as do you want the cake from here or there? Do you want decorations or no? Do you care if it's casual or more dressy?
I love my mother and know she's means well. She's just excited because this is her youngest baby getting married. I just laugh it off and answer her questions.