This is what myself and another friend were told by our friend who is getting married soon. Oh yeah, and both of us are bridesmaids in her wedding.... We were having dinner with the bride and one other friend and just having a chill girls' night out. I tried to keep wedding talk to a minimum (at least about my wedding) but somehow she started talking about how big the WP is (like we didn't already know) and how stressed out she is because there are "so many bridesmaids because 'Joe" wanted so many groomsmen!" I tried not to take it personally, but honestly I was kinda surprised when she asked me so I'm feeling like I was one of the "fillers" -- especially since my FI is a GM. (Now when I asked her quite a few months later to be one of my BMs, we had been friends longer and I consider her one of my best friends.)
Idk, I tried to shake it off, because it's not like she explicitly said, "I wish you weren't in my wedding!", but it still stung. I know I'm probably over-sensitive but I just would never think that would be ok to say to your friends and bridesmaids. Am I being a baby?