Apparently, if you do a 2nd visit at RK Bridal in NYC, you don't have to go through the madness that IS RK Bridal! I had a 2nd visit there and went on a Saturday morning (crazy, I know) but tracked down my previous consultant. She remembered me and had me try on a dress in a different room so I can purchase that day. My consultant by the way was Janice and she was so, so sweet and helpful! I recommend her or Megan, as well!
Good luck everyone!