On the day of the wedding my bridesmaids, my mom and I are all going to get our hair and makeup done at a salon. I am footing the bill for this since to lessen the financial burden on my bridesmaids. My fiance asked me if I would invite his mom so that she wouldn't feel left out. I invited her to come along since it was important to my him. The problem now is that my soon to be MIL invited the grandmother to come with as well, with out even asking me! I am really offended by this since I was going out of my way to invite her in the first place. How can I handle this situation? I wanted this to be time I could relax with my girls but now I feel like its all wrong.