Ok, so my fiancé and I live in the middle of where his family is and where my family is...if that makes any sense. We are have the wedding at an equal distance for both families, but still convenient for us. My family, except for mom and sisters, are not the happy go lucky, party kind of people. So I feel if I have my sister/maid plan a shower at equal distance, a good majority will not come. Would it be weird or look like I am greedy if I try to have two wedding showers? One my sister/maid will have near my hometown, so the family and friends from that area will definitely come. And then one probably planned by my sort of already sister in law, near his hometown so his side can come.