I've recently read about many people's opinions on reception food vs number of guests etc. I never realized it was such an issue. My question revolves around this in the sense that many family members/friends would be offended if they were not invited to our wedding, however, because of budget restrictions we simply can't afford to feed everyone.
We have decided to keep it simple and after speaking to my caterer, have chosen to do self serve cold sandwiches, veggie and fruit platters and desserts. She's informed me that she's done many weddings with this choice of food and they've all been enjoyable so it's not the food choice that I'm concerned about. It's that I don't see how we'll be able to feed everyone who will insist on being there. So do we cut the guest list and risk offending people by not inviting them, or do we let everyone know we are limited but risk offending them by not having enough food?