So I've been stressing over work and quitting before finding a new job since I can't lapse on my medical insurance (and I really want to avoid paying COBRA for more than necessary because that shit's expensive yo).
Last night, in an effort to calm my nerves Fi says "well don't worry. If we need to get you on my medical plan we can just go to the courthouse and sign papers. That won't stop us from having our wedding later on when we want to with our family!"
Must. Shut. Mouth. Must. Not. Bite. Head. Off.
But this has definitely spurred me into "oh crap, I really need to find a new job!" mode.