My maid of honor selfishly stepped down recently. Her dress had already been ordered and at least 1/2 was paid (by her). She has not notified the shop and I am now being told that they will hold the remaining bridesmaid dresses that have not yet been picked up until the balance for the maid of honors dress is paid. It's $95, which isn't going to break me, but my thought is that if all of the other girls pay for their dress, they should get them. I can also see the shops side of the issue too.Also, I am not speaking to the maid of honor any longer and she lives in another state. What should I do? Just eat the $95 or go toe to toe with the shop?