I am a recent bride (I got married in October 2010) and gained a wonderful step-daughter who is engaged to be married next August (2012) and who lost her mother at the age of ten. I am doing all that she asks of me to help with her plans (trying to make sure I don't overstep my boudaries) and only giving advice when asked. We have a great time when we talk about her mom, hear about her parents' escapades in college, and she opens up more and more to me. I really feel like the token flower arrangement at the altar just cannot do justice to her mother's memories and impact on Sarah's newest life adventure. Her mother was a confirmed Catholic, her father studied but never confirmed, she and her fiance are both confirmed Catholic and the ceremony will be in the Catholic church officiated by her mother's uncle, a retired Catholic Priest. Any ideas?