Hey All--
My DH and I have an etiquette disagreement and so I thought I would ask the fine ladies of the TK etiquette board .
We recently received an invitation to a wedding. There was NO mention of registry information or request for cash or any of that, as is appropriate. However, when we called to RSVP, my DH asked them where they were registered. Their response was they are not registered anywhere and do not need any gifts but, if we want to give them something, they prefer cash.
After DH got off the phone, he commented to me he thought asking for cash was rude and was a bit put off by it. I felt that, although it is very rude to ask for cash on the invitation (or anything else for that matter), that I didn't think it was rude at all since he had specifically asked them about gifts.
Now I'm curious to see how others feel about it. Thanks in advance for the input!