I really just want to send a genuine thank you to people who reply on these boards. I haven't always liked your comments, but I know that's just because the truth can sting. I was just this morning obsessing reflecting, on a situation with one of my BM's and I was reading through some of the discussions other brides had posted. Let me tell you, it was just I needed to read. In my shortsightedness of the moment I forgot that all my BM's truly have to do is buy a dress and show up. I really needed that reminder and I just wanted to say Thanks. I have since been able to cool my jets and I know I am better for it. THANK YOU!