I am one of the last "kids" to get married in my family. Because of that most of my cousins and couple friends have kids. I would like to have my wedding kid free with the exception of my nieces (5yrs, 4yrs and 2yrs) and my youngest cousin who will be 9yrs at that time.
My question is, how do I handle this? I am mainly worried about out of town cousins that I would love to come, but without their kids. I am almost certain they won't come just because they won't have a built in babysitter (my aunts).
Is there a way of getting a sitter for the kids? I have never hired one (or more than one) before. Is it going to be expensive? We are on a tight budget.
The people pleaser in me is having a hard time with this. Any and all advise is welcome.