I used to hang out all the time with a former co-worker until she moved to a different company...i.e. I was one of the first people she texted after getting engaged. Now we only talk once in a while, texting here and there.
We got her save the dates several months ago, and I was invited to her bridal shower. I never formally RSVPed, and ended up having a family emergency that weekend, so I missed it anyway. I texted her a couple of weeks later (I realize this is late) and apologized for missing her shower, but wanted to send her a gift...I asked her to please send me her address.
Long story short, I found out the invitations were already mailed for the wedding...and I wasn't invited. She's also now ignoring my texts.
I'm sorry...but when I did invites for my wedding I ensured that everyone invited to the shower and who was mailed a save-the-date received an invitation...regardless of the status of our friendship/relationship at the time (and in this case, I don't' even think I did anything wrong). I just find this unbelievably rude. *end rant*