I need help ladies. My MIL is throwing me a shower later this month in my FI's home town. Guest list consists of my Bridal party and the females from the FI's side of the family. Its an all weekend event and really pretty over the top. I'm sure it will be a blast, but the issue is my sister/MOH. She is a) crushed that she can't make it due to a work event. (My MIL did not check the date with me before sending out invites or I would have fought for my sister to be able to come) And b) a birdy has told me she is feeling really awful that the shower she is hoping to throw will pale in comparison.
And I feel awful that she feels awful! My sister is a wonderful mother, loving wife and works her tail off every single day. Plus, right now she and her husband are so close to being able to afford their first house, the last thing I want is for her to blow money on a shower for me. I mean, even before the invites for this other shower came I would have said the same thing. How do I ease her worry and make this more affordable for her? I've asked to help bring treats to the shower as I love baking. And when she asked for ideas I suggested we do a simple party in the backyard of my parents home. But these efforts have been brushed off. I just want my sister to know that no matter what she decides to do I will love it, and her.