I don't really believe in hashtags... but...

Starlet514

#signsyoudon'tbelongintheweddingparty - You don't know how to spell the brides 5 letter last name... 

hlvonb

I would have to agree with that @Starlet514

I would add not knowing the FI's name and / or calling the FI by the bride's ex-boyfriend's name (sorry but Bob and Mike are totally different and don't even sound similar)*

*Names made up instead of using real names

Starlet514

My FI got mad when I texted that to a friend... so I figured I'd vent on here... individual bullied her way into the wedding party but NOT on my side because I don't give in to petulant children and their temper tantrums so she is now a "groomswoman" who looked rather foolish when ordering her dress and she had to ask how to spell my last name... the woman at the dress store looked at me like "really???"  

Marzipan13

#signsyoudontbelongintheweddingparty - you automatically (and wrongly) assume you're in the wedding party.

Inkdancer

#signsyoudontbelongintheweddingparty - the only time we've talked in the last 6 months was when you FB messaged me asking to be a bridesmaid.

Amyzen83

#signsyoudontbelongintheweddingparty - Your only form of communication with the bride or groom is liking stuff on FB but won't respond to actual forms of communication such as phone calls emails or even texts

ei34

@inkdancer @amyzen83 YES both of your posts x 1000! A friend asked me to be one of her BMs after a few years since we'd been close. Our relationship was literally the occasional liking of an FB status! I'm sorry to say this was before I found TK and found out that I am allowed to turn down a BM invite...worst brideslave experience of my life! You live and learn..

Amyzen83

Yea, when my FB got re-activated, I made it a point to do some major "house cleaning" If I haven't talked to you in about a year, buh bye now!