So my mom was helping us gather the emails and addresses of the people from my family. While she called them up, several asked her what gift we would prefer, something from the registry or cash.
I told her to tell them either one is fine. That if they want they can browse our registry and decide for themselves.
Was this a good answer? My family is big but very close and a lot of what is considered rude int his forum is the norm in our group. I really dont mind either gift.