We are finalizing our programs, and I have a few questions about honoring our grandparents that I'm struggling with.
Only 1 of our 3 surviving grandmothers will be able to attend the ceremony, and we would like to list her in the ceremony under "Wedding Participants" to honor her. My FI wants to have a small vase of flowers at the reception site with a note stating something to the effect of "In remembrance of XXX, XXX, and XXX." The question I have, then, is how to honor the two grandmothers who are still with us, but will be unable to attend?
I'm really open to any suggestions, but don't want to leave them out. Does anyone have any ideas?
(Edited the subject for clarity)