So FI and I had no plans to go on a honeymoon. With our work we couldn't take days off before the wedding and get everything ready for that and also get everything ready at work for us to be gone. FI's BM called me and said that as a wedding present his mother wanted to let us use her vacation condo on an island where we vacation frequently for our honeymoon. I told BM that we weren't planning on doing that because of work, blah, blah, blah. His Mom called FI and told him we need to take a honeymoon and she wouldn't hear any excuses. LOL We aren't going right after the wedding, but we're going to leave the weekend after the wedding. I'm excited! It's really hard to get FI away from work.