I hate this! It makes my head hurt looking at countless websites of things I cant afford. Stressing about who to cut from my already tight guest list (125 ppl). Feeling like the $8,000 budget that we are sacrificing so much to save is "just not enough." Every time I call or email a vendor the are out of my price point and will have to "try to work with us". Im over it. I feel so much pressure. I have 12 months left to plan (we want to get married next march) and I havent started ANYTHING (other than saving money). My FI is supportive but not very helpful. If I set up the meetings, or show him a website he will give me an opinion but other than that I feel alone in this. Its so frustrating because I would love to elope on a cruise and call it a damn day, but he wants a "traditional" wedding with "all his friends and a good time" Im over this! So Over IT!