So, I know I am possibly being unreasonable here, but I just needed to vent to you ladies a bit.
I have a friend(We'll call her Anna) that I am very close with. She is also my MOH.
Well Anna and I live about an hour away from each other. So we don't get to see each other often, which I get. I work M-F and she works weekends only but goes to school a few days out of the week. That makes it harder to hang out as our schedules are so opposite.
Here's where I am annoyed/sad/frustrated.
Anna will call/text me and we will pick a day to hang out. She normally comes to our house as I cannot travel due to working everyday. We usually always pick a day where she doesn't have class/or gets out of class early so she doesn't make it seem like a huge deal to come down. (I even offer to help pay for gas/always pay for dinner, etc if she decided to come, and she always declines. I know its because she is being polite.)
Anywho, the past month or month and a half... everytime we make plans to hang out, she completely flakes on me last minute. She will say, "Yeah, we can hang out on X day. "Then when I text to verify plans, she always has some excuse to not come down. I get not wanting to drive, I really do. Had I not have to work M-F I would definitely drive down myself, but it isn't an option. So I try really hard to suck it up and not get upset, but I cannot stand flaky people. Thats why I lost all of my old friends. They would bail or not contact me at all about missed plans. I guess in general I should not get my hopes up, but she is the only friend I feel super close to. It just hurts. Maybe it's because I am an extremely emotional blob lately, as I just started new BC, and the wedding is in a few months, but I just don't know how to feel about this.
Any of you ladies have a similar experience? How did you handle it?
I think I am just going to suck it up like I always do, and smile pretty. I don't want to make waves, I just needed thoughts and someone to talk to. I don't have a whole lot of people I can just do that with anymore. Thanks in advance, ladies! Hope you are all enjoying your evening.