I don't want a bridal shower nor wedding gifts. (We already live together and have for 4 years now) And we are buying a house after recouping our savings from the wedding about this time next year so not even sure of decor and such for our new place. Is it just assumed if there is not registry info anywhere on our site, etc that we are declining gifts? I'm not trying to be rude, but I feel it would be wasteful for anyone to get us any of the "traditional registry" stuff or even have a bridal shower.