I have chosen a buffet style meal for my wedding and everyone will have portions of pork and chicken. (my fiance and I don't eat beef) If someone doesn't like one of those meats the servers won't force it on them. (I am going to post the menu on the wedding website.)
I was satisfied because it is bad etiquette to list the food options on the rsvps, but now I'm thinking about my vegetarian and vegan guests. I know most of the vegans on my side but I'm sure there are a few that I am missing, especially on my Fiances side. I have spoken with the caterer and they are willing to make a tuscan tofu dish but I need to get a count of how many would prefer this dish over the meat. I was thinking of adding a line about allergies but I don't want that to open up to the people who are just picky and want something else. (eg, I've already had a couple people tell me they don't like onions so I should make sure not to serve those)I've already taken nuts and fish out of the picture and I also know a few that are allergic to chocolate so I have options for them. I would just feel horrible if we ran out of the tofu dish before all the vegans/vegetarians were served. What should I do?! Would the below format be rude?
We look forward to celebrating with you.
Please reply by May 9, 2014
M___________________________
{ } Accept with pleasure
{ } Decline with regret
There are
_____ people in our entourage,
Of which
_____ are vegetarian.
(we are inviting everyone's children too so I'm worried the parents won't list them on the m___ section)