Just got an invite in the mail.
I had to go to work today so I'm feeling cranky and snarky.
Invite:
The parents of the bride and
The parents of the groom
Request the pleasure of [our] company
at their children's church wedding.
At 2pm
Three months from now
Adult Only Reception to Follow
Semi-Formal Attire
In addition to the RSVP card (which has an RSVP deadline almost 6 weeks prior to the wedding), there are three inserts.
One is hotel accommodations and a link to their wedding website (incorrect URL. Ouch).
The next card is directions to the reception with this written on it:
"Venue is Cash Only. There is no ATM on site."
I have to wonder what I'll be needing cash for... I'm tempted to contact them and ask just so I know how much I'll need.
Third card is my favorite.
The top of the card lists their three registries (their wedding website also has a link to each one on the main sidebar of their website. So the link to Williams-Sonoma is as big as and above the link to "Guest Information").
It then mentions two more times how it's an adult only reception but extends the invite of the kids to the ceremony.
Coffee hour starts at 3:30. Cocktail hour at 4:30. Dinner at 6. So a 2+ hour gap. But at least it's hosted (unless those are the things we need cash for).
What gets me is they came to our wedding... which managed to be kids-free without mentioning it in the invite and where they managed to find our registry without its being in the invite. It also didn't matter if there was no ATM on site (though there was) because they needed cash for nothing at our wedding. And we managed to have a Catholic wedding that went immediately into the 1-hour cocktail hour.
We went to a wedding with them once where cocktail hour was two hours long and we sat at the table just being soooooo bored, with their complaining about it way more than us. They were also pissed the the bar turned cash after cocktail hour so if the cash they expect us to bring is for the bar, I'm even more wtf.
So this sort of boggles my mind.
Someone should invent a bad invitation drinking game.
ETA:
I added the breakdown on a later post.